Belief ...Faith.. Trust..."A joke"??

I can make this happen...I am expecting this to happen...I believe it will happen.. I hope this happens.... I want this to happen.... I wish it happens...well how often have we used these sentences. I am sure we all have at some point of time.We always want or expect or wish or even think we can make some things happen.Sometimes they do happen and sometimes they don't.When they do we are happy (if its something good). Or at least ready to handle it (in case of a crisis) but what happens when something so unexpected happens that we feel as if we are suddenly thrown into a dark tunnel and we don't even know where it ends.What if we don't even understand what hit us.What if that thing is so bad that we lose something irreplaceable.What if it had come from the most unexpected quarters.Then what do we do.In times like this we feel we have no control of our lives. The words "everything that happens,happens for the good" ends up sounding like a huge joke!!!.The words "god will be on our side" sounds frivolous. Some of our truest beliefs are shaken.We suddenly start getting apprehensive of things.A kind of apprehension that never existed before.At times like this our distant relatives have lots to say,People really close to us hardly say anything because they understand and know that just moral support and silence mean more than any amount of words.Coming back to normality make take a Herculean effort on the side of the person affected and also on the kind of encouragement shown by friends and close relatives. It takes time to restore faith in things we believed in earlier. It takes enormous courage to get oneself out of this but It must be done. It may take time but we must, because we still have a life and Until the very end we have a responsibility to live it.We must try and restore our faith because that is the very basic principle we lead our lives on.It is a necessity because things we may detest, things that are unbelievable will happen and every time we have to pull ourselves up. Well I do know its easier said than done because people affected will only know how it feels but it has to happen, because "Uncertainty is the name of the game (life)"...we can choose to accept or ignore it.... but either way its true...a very recent happening shook me up quite a bit and affected some one and that one's family very dearly...its that very happening that provoked me to write this, because "There is no smarter or greater teacher than life itself"!!!